Hey guys!
So today has been a great day for me! No particular reason, I just felt happy when I woke up, and for someone living with mental health difficulties this defines a great day!
So I decided I would blog and usually I have outlines as to what I want to talk about, but tonight I'm kind of freestyle typing. I want to tackle the issue of social stigma but in a different kind of way.
We all hear a lot at the moment in the media about how we need to "Lower the stigmas around mental health" which is definitely a necessary task; however, to those who maybe haven't had a lot of experience in this field they tend to think about the big picture rather than individual life stories. By this I mean we can get caught up in tackling "How we all think people are crazy who have mental health difficulties" or "How we keep depression on the down low" .. I don't know about other people but to me this isn't where the stigma needs to be lowered as such. It's more daily tasks and views and passing comments that hold onto the stigma more.
For instance, I blog about mental health, I post it on facebook, instagram, I have even been interviewed about it, however I still struggle mentioning it in front of people face to face because usually they tend to go very silent and awkward. This I find is a lot more uncomfortable than someone making a comment or asking a question. I approach the subject usually in a funny manner. I would say something like "Oh me and my mucked up head" and then laugh, because people can manage that, however if I say "Oh my depression/anxiety is bad today" they freeze or stare. Mentioning I've been an inpatient in a psychiatric hospital? Gosh that's a no zone!! So why do we try and tackle the big picture, and not the more personal aspects?
Yes it's hard to understand everyone's personal experience, but these awkward moments, these shocked faces are proving that lowering social stigmas isn't actually working. We can put up on a billboard a sign about mental health, we can report on the news the rates of suicide, but we aren't informing people just how common it is to have a mental health problem, how we don't have to tiptoe around the 'big scary subject'! I believe that mental health should be included a lot more in the curriculum of schools. How to notice the symptoms, how to take care of a friend, what organisations to contact, how to manage, self help techniques.. these are the things we should all be learning about because 1 in 4 of us in our lifetime will have a mental health difficulty!!
Social stigmas NEED to be lowered... not the cliché view of "We can't call people crazy anymore" .. but it should be discussed on a one to one basis and taught in classrooms, we need this change to happen to prevent unseen diagnoses and potential suicides!
Be the change you want to see in the world!!
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All my love, Erin. x
